There is a believe in our society that we think maturity comes with age.
Older you are, the mature you are.
You can’t and mustn’t argue with elders (although you have a good point). ¯_(ツ)_/¯
If you speak big quotes in front of elders you have to cope up with awkwardness.
And I think you not gonna believe in that anymore because now you will see maturity through my perspective.
Before coming on “Meaning of Maturity”
We all face some mutual problems(betrayal, heart breaks, breakups, etc.) in our life.
But the perspective of seeing those problems and taking lessons from them is very much different from person to person.
Here the Maturity enters
What is Maturity ?
Maturity is getting experience and using it in your onward life journey.
Now fastly understand what is experience…
Experience is learning from the lessons taken by problems of life.
What is not Maturity ?
A second believe of society is that…
The maturity is when you start taking care of elder ones along with younger ones and taking care of yourself.
This “taking care stuff” comes in humbleness and showing love, which is definitely not Maturity.
These are different things…
But necessary and we must need those qualities along with Maturity to become a kind and lovable being.
Thus a younger one can have more maturity than elder one (not in each and every case) because maybe he/she have the better perspective of taking lesson from the mutual problem.
But never-ever thought that you are supreme…
You have best perspective…
You are the only inteligent being…
If you gonna think like that so what is the difference between you and a narrow-minded; self-centred person.
Be humble to everyone.
Clear all your confusions, if you are having now.
Just enjoy your life…
Life is all about facing problems
Taking lessons from those problems
Learning lessons (gaining experience)
Life is that simple 😀
Now don’t indulge between those big-confusing words; Maturity, Experience, Lessons, Bla-Bla-Bla
Just Enjoy Life
Keep Going Forward
Hope You Enjoyed